When I was almost 7, I had all sorts of ideas as to what I wanted to be when I grew up. Most of the time I wanted to be a poet. I was reminded of that ridiculous notion for the gazillionth time this morning as I listened to some particularly fantastic poetry on “Morning Edition” in honor of National Poetry Month.

You know, I thought to myself as I cracked open the first Diet Coke of the morning and washed down a Claritin-D and a multi-vitamin, it’s really really easy to write bad poetry and really really hard to write good poetry.

That is not my point here. My point is this. No one told me when I was almost 7 that there was no way I was going to end up as a poet, no matter how hard I tried. No one set any such limitations — not my parents, my teachers or society.

When you are almost 7, the possibilities are pretty endless.

Enter Sophie. She’s almost 7. It’s been a while since she’s talked about what she wants to be when she grows up, but suddenly, it’s back as a topic of conversation.

Mostly, Sophie wants to be a veterniarian. But the other day she announced, “I be a mother when I grow up!”

That, for obvious reasons, is the biggest heartbreaker of all for me, although I do maintain that I’ll do everything in my power (well, you know what I mean) to make sure that at the very least, Sophie falls in love and has great sex.

The girls had just settled into their booster seats in the car this morning, when — probably motivated by the strong desire to own the large rainbow pack of dry-erase markers we were bringing to Ms. Y — Sophie asked, “Can I be a teacher when I grow up?”

“Of course!” replied Annabelle, whose own list currently includes fashion designer, ballerina, actress, writer and scientist. “You can be anything you want to be, Sophie!”

I didn’t say a word.

But it did occur to me, as I backed out of the driveway and we headed off into the day, that Sophie is already quite a teacher.

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5 Responses to “Sophie asked, “Can I be a teacher when I grow up?””

  1. Beautiful, Amy. And so true.

  2. I think I’ve mentioned it before here, I like what John Rosemond has to say about encouraging kids. Basically, he says it’s good to tell our kids that everyone has certain talents and gifts and it’s their job to figure out how to best use those.

  3. I love your blog. This one in particular, because there is no reason to discourage any child from dreaming about what they want to be when they grow up. Sophie may well be a teacher ( I LOVED the line about how she already is), but next week she may want to be a nurse, or a ballerina, or a lion tamer.

    Whatever she does for a living I believe you are raising a sweet and kind, thoughtful girl.

    The sky’s the limit!

  4. Just found your blog via a facebook link from Diane D’Angelo. Gosh. Wish I had found it sooner but so glad I’ve found it now. I shall be a faithful reader.

  5. I’m with Annabelle. But I know that feeling in my heart too – it’s a bear to keep out isn’t it? Hugs.

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