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		<title>Are You There Margaret? It&#8217;s Me, Annabelle</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t have a lot of romantic notions about camping &#8212; except when it comes to Annabelle. I&#8217;d like to think that she&#8217;ll look back on our trip last week as part of the Summer She Turned 9 &#8212; the summer she danced with her Gaga, performed in a play version of &#8220;Diary of A [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t have a lot of romantic notions about camping &#8212; except when it comes to Annabelle.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to think that she&#8217;ll look back on our trip last week as part of the Summer She Turned 9 &#8212; the summer she danced with her Gaga, performed in a play version of &#8220;Diary of A Wimpy Kid&#8221; and went to the beach with her cousins for the umpteenth time. The summer she went to Yellowstone.</p>
<p>I imagine her collection of memories: Searching (in vain) out the window of her daddy&#8217;s giant truck for grizzly bears, then watching as buffalo practically brushed up against the windows during a late afternoon traffic jam.  The stink and gurgle of those weird &#8220;thermal features.&#8221; Learning to stoke the campfire and put up the tent. Doubling over in giggles with her mom when her little sister Sophie asked a forest ranger for &#8220;extra towels&#8221; and pretending to be Olivia the Pig in order to coax that darn Sophie to do everything from get out of the truck to pick up her feet and hike. Freezing in the tent at night, listening to the wind come up and the air come out of her poor dad&#8217;s mattress &#8212; and to her mom snoring. Looking at the stars, watching movies on the iPhone, making up family versions of the Double Rainbow Song.</p>
<p>And Margaret. I bet she&#8217;ll remember Margaret. For all her smarts, up to now Annabelle&#8217;s not been a huge reader &#8212; not in a can&#8217;t-put-that-book-down way. Not until Margaret. I read Judy Blume&#8217;s &#8220;Are You There God? It&#8217;s Me, Margaret&#8221; when I was in fourth grade (or maybe third) but it didn&#8217;t occur to me that Annabelle was ready for it until a dear friend warned me her own daughter had just finished it and might start chatting with Annabelle about periods and boys.</p>
<p>I packed a copy of the book in Annabelle&#8217;s little pink backpack, along with her Nintendo DS and &#8220;Spesh&#8221; and &#8220;Ella,&#8221; her security blanket and stuffed elephant. She devoured it. At one point I had to warn her to slow down, that she&#8217;d run out of reading material while we were camping (one of my own personal fears). But as it was, her timing was perfect: Annabelle finished Margaret on the last morning we camped &#8212; sunk into a folding camp chair, orange Croc-ed ankles crossed daintily, dangling inches from the ground.</p>
<p>(Ah, the drama of the last pages of a good book. My own favorite memory is from fifth or sixth grade, when my pal Glenna Clark played the theme to the movie &#8220;Ice Castles&#8221; on her family&#8217;s piano for extra tear-jerking effect as I read the final paragraphs of Danielle Steele&#8217;s &#8220;The Promise&#8221;.)</p>
<p>Annabelle turned the last page and heaved one of those great big satisfied sighs you sigh when you&#8217;ve finished the greatest book you&#8217;ve ever read, and I immediately thought about which Judy Blume to give her next: &#8220;Otherwise Known as Shelia the Great&#8221; is probably too young. I&#8217;m not ready myself for &#8220;Then Again, Maybe I Won&#8217;t.&#8221; Perhaps &#8220;Deenie&#8221;? It&#8217;s a delicious debate. But I&#8217;m glad I didn&#8217;t have any other books with me; it was nice for Annabelle to spend some time reflecting with Margaret.</p>
<p>&#8220;Margaret talks to God,&#8221; Annabelle told me one morning as we walked the now well-worn path from our campsite to the (thankfully very clean with flush toilets) bathroom. I know, I answered, waiting, worried &#8212; this whole god thing is still a sore spot for me, particularly as the Jewish High Holidays approach this year and I have no better answers as to how proceed with a religious education than I did last year. (We&#8217;re still attending the Church of Dance&#8230;.)</p>
<p>&#8220;And now,&#8221; she continued, &#8220;when I&#8217;m worried about something, like where I&#8217;m going to school next year or stuff going on with friends, I have someone to talk to. I can talk to Margaret.&#8221;</p>
<p>Frankly, I can&#8217;t think of a better confidant.</p>
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