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	<title>Girl in a Party Hat &#187; alex varlotta</title>
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		<title>Wishing the Varlotta Family a Happy Ending</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 16:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amysilverman]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week, New Times published my first cover story in a year &#8212; the beginning of a series called &#8220;Lost Kids&#8221;. It&#8217;s the kind of story I used to write a dozen times a year. And yet, it&#8217;s not. I hate to admit that motherhood (particularly, mothering Sophie) has changed how I approach telling other [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week, <em>New Times</em> published my first <a href="http://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/2009-10-08/news/saving-alex-a-mother-finally-got-desperately-needed-help-for-her-troubled-son-by-calling-the-cops-on-him/">cover story</a> in a year &#8212; the beginning of a series called &#8220;Lost Kids&#8221;. It&#8217;s the kind of story I used to write a dozen times a year. And yet, it&#8217;s not.</p>
<p>I hate to admit that motherhood (particularly, mothering Sophie) has changed how I approach telling other people&#8217;s stories, but it has. I don&#8217;t know that it made this story any better from the reader&#8217;s perspective, but it cut me to the quick, telling this one.</p>
<p>Niki Varlotta is quite a mom. As much as I asked her about her son Alex, in the two-plus years I followed her family, she wanted to know all about Sophie, too. She didn&#8217;t have to ask &#8212; she&#8217;s just that kind of person. She wanted to know. She really cares. We talked about other stuff, too. Books, music. About our &#8220;typical&#8221; kids and how having &#8220;special&#8221; siblings &#8212; so different and yet unified by their differentness &#8212; affects them, for both good and bad.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll miss her. And yet, I&#8217;m terrified she&#8217;ll call &#8212; to share the next scary chapter of her family&#8217;s story. I hope I don&#8217;t hear from Niki, save a Christmas card or a book recommendation.</p>
<p>That family deserves a happy ending.</p>
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